LOST

Lost

Feel the weight of the iron chains cutting in your shoulders. Feel the points of a hundred darts pinching in your brain, suck in the cold you feel in the hot sunny day. Realize that you are lost.

Lost of direction; Lost of connection; Lost of compassion; Lost of emotion.

It is acceptable to be lost, that is where an individual gets an opportunity to change the fundamentals that make his/her personality & character. Nobody dies of being lost, so chill, it’s alright. (Unless you trip in to a territory of hostile & dangerous ninjas).

You my friend, the one who is trying hard to see signs, who concludes everything very fast, who is desperately extracting meaning from things.  THEY ARE JUST THINGS, they do not have any implied messages (unless you’re a top secret agent). Majority of the things around you do not convey anything you consider, you are lost, so relax & take every step very patiently unless you trip under a wire.

Don’t be afraid either, people do make mistakes, so give it a chance, but do not go against your libido, against you principles, things you believe in, things that have made you what you are or brought you closer to what you want to become.

Let it out to a stranger or at least somebody you seldom meet. As his behaviour won’t intrude your daily life & his comments won’t bother you, as he does not hold any position in your life. OR TO A PERSON WHO DOES NOT JUDGE  AND PREACH YOU.

IT’S FINE TO BE LOST

GIVES YOU A NEW BEGINNING.

SURRENDER

SURRENDER

When you have got nothing going your way, wait a moment. Drink water (whole glass) slowly, sit in your favourite spot, besides a window, under a tree, in the cosy corner of your room, on your favourite chair across blowing winds or just like me on the Swing at 1:00am and start listening to songs that portray empathy.

MIND YOU,

You are not at the receiving end, empathy is not for you and now let me tell you why. Everything is not going as expected or in fact going wrong, probably you are in a one way or on the wrong side of the road.

Surrender does not mean you lost, surrender does not mean you gave up, surrender does not mean you are weak. It just implies you are rational.

Surrender to your breath, surrender your pangs, surrender your angst, surrender your sorrow, surrender your helplessness, surrender them and do not surrender to them. You will be able to move out from the Bermuda triangle and the situation will unfurl itself.

Others are right
They might not be as involved in the issue as much as you and hence, can see the larger picture. Understand you need to adapt and surrender to your surroundings. I cannot emphasize enough to do so. The words SURRounding/SURRender. If you don’t give in, it’s the end sir.

You being changed/ not changed, does not matter at all, as with time everyone/ everything has and you still want things to be your way, guess who is ignorant and stubborn?

Such a situation always reminds me of the below crossroad I had come across:

“IF YOU ARE A RABBIT IN THE FREE JUNGLE EATING PLANTS & SO YOU EXPECT THE LION, NOT TO EAT YOU, YOU HAVE TO RECONSIDER YOUR EXPECTATION”

We all have been the LION.

FEAR!

FEAR!

Fear is the most innocent of all the feelings known to Humans.

Fear is something that does not come to you naturally, but is planted to make all other feelings & senses blossom and ripe. Fear is necessary, it makes you ALERT, AWARE & CALCULATIVE. Fear can be overwhelming and also underwhelming, either ways, fear is your FRIEND.

FRIEND

Make fear your best friend at its early stage. Love it, nurture it, care for it, and make him your bro.

Fear should not be able to move a step without your consent or informing you.

So now when you grow to be mature, fear will mature with you. Change your best friend for the better, make him something that it's mother/father/brother/sister be proud of, If there is a best friend, it has to be like you.

FRIEND, SERIOUSLY?

Listen what fear has to say to you, listen carefully. Make him believe that you really care for it. Make him your go to guy for things. As the habit goes, it will try to take over you at the last moment and rob you of all the credits and hard work. STAB IT. stab it in the back & get everything you can, because everything you can get from fear, you deserve it probably.

Knowing this is what everyone has to go through some or the other time in his life, for Brothers/Sisters/Parents/Love/Friendship............. doesn’t make it less horrifying, but knowing we are with fear in this together, makes it easier to build friendship.

Processed Fear is Curiosity, Anxiety & Wonder.